Stop Trying To Be Good

July 5, 2026

Pastor Travis Deatherage presented today's message, "Stop Trying To Be Good." A video of today's message is here on YouTube. It may help to be familiar with the message but that is not required to enjoy the thoughts below.

This was the fifth message in a summer series on the Jehovah names of God. Today's name was Jehovah Mekeddeshem (The Lord Who Sanctifies).



Let's look deeper into the notion of abiding. What can/could it mean to abide in someone or something? Webster's online dictionary suggests that most people looking up "abide" are looking for information about its use in the Bible or its use in The Big Lebowski, "The Dude abides." In both cases, the sense is "to remain stable or fixed in a state." For the Bible, "stay fixed or constant in your relationship with Jesus," and for Lebowski, some notion of constancy of Lebowski himself.

In New Testament Greek, the word in John 15:4 is meno (μένω). It can carry these meanings (BibleHub.com):

1. to remain
2. (in a place) to abide, to stay
3. (of expectancy) to await
4. (in a state) to continue
5. (in a task) to endure
6. (of a relationship) to exist permanently in, inseparably united (inhere, adhere)

Essentially, it means to stay in a place, state, relationship, or expectancy. John 15:4 that Travis mentioned, "Remain in Me and I will remain in you," suggests a reciprocal, covenantal union.

In Old Testament Hebrew, abide is shakan (שָׁכַן). Shakan carries similar meanings with an added nuance of habitation or place (e.g. to settle in/down). And in the case of abiding with God, it can go both ways: us abiding in God and God abiding in us. In the Exodus story, the notion of a place is added, the Tabernacle and later the Tent of Meeting.

BibleHub.com adds a New Testament extension to shakan: "The Gospel of John deliberately mirrors shakan: 'The Word became flesh and dwelt among us' (John 1:14). The Incarnation embodies the Tabernacle idea - God pitching His tent within human experience, displaying glory and offering covenant fellowship. Pentecost extends this indwelling to the corporate church through the Holy Spirit (Acts 2), providing personal and communal realization of the promise."

The Hebrew root word for sanctify is qadash (קָדַשׁ) generally meaning set apart, made holy, consecrated, dedicated, etc. It may be helpful to see what else is set apart in the Old Testament:

Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done. (Genesis 2:3, Creation)

Consecrate [make holy, set apart] to Me every firstborn male. The first offspring of every womb among the Israelites belongs to me, whether human or animal. (Exodus 13:2, leaving Egypt)

And the Lord said to Moses, "Go to the people and consecrate them today and tomorrow." (Exodus 19:10, in preparation for the delivering of the Ten Commandments, plus four other occurrences in chapter 19)

Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy. (Exodus 20:8, 11b, 5th Commandment)

Many times in Exodus 28-40 about the consecration of the Priests, the Tent of Meeting, its contents, etc..

Consecrate yourselves therefore, and be holy, for I am the Lord your God. And you shall keep My statutes, and perform them: I am the Lord who sanctifies you. (Leviticus 20:7, 8)

Throughout the rest of Leviticus regarding the rituals and sacrifices.

Every firstborn male in Israel, whether human or animal, is mine. When I struck down all the firstborn in Egypt, I set them apart for myself. (Numbers 8:17)

Throughout Numbers and Deuteronomy.

Joshua told the people, "Consecrate yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do amazing things among you." (Joshua 3:5 as the Israelites proceed into the Promised Land)

And this continues for a total of about 175 occurrences throughout the Old Testament. The commonality is "setting apart for a sacred and/or holy purpose."

The opposite of sanctify is defile. Defile was used to describe something death-related, polluted, or demeaning whether in ethics or religious practice, moral or spiritual transgressions. All were violations of God's will. The word profane carried a similar meaning. See: What did sanctification mean in the Old Testament?


Bonus


Young Washington (movie)

Lynn and I went to the movies the morning of July 4th to see Young Washington. The title describes exactly what the movie is about, a very young adult George Washington well before the Declaration of Independence and Revolutionary War. As it turns out, it's about a young George Washington I knew nothing about. When we got back from the show, I had to ask "Mr. History" (my son-in-law), "Did this really happen? Was that true? Was he really like that?" Turns out, yup, the movie was quite true to reality. You'll recognize a couple familiar actors, but to me, the cast was unknown including the man who played George Washington: William Franklyn. Unless you're already well-versed in this character and this period of time, you're in for a shocker of sorts.


Bonus2


The Shining City on the Hill

Commentary by Erick-Woods Erickson:

"You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden." (Matthew 5:14)

Ronald Reagan borrowed the phrase "A city upon a hill" from John Winthrop, who borrowed it from the Sermon on the Mount.

A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Winthrop said it to a boatload of Puritans before they'd even landed, and here is the part people forget: it wasn't a boast. It was a warning. The eyes of all people are upon us. If we deal badly, we become a story and a byword through the world. He was telling them that being watched is a burden before it is an honor. Reagan understood that. When he called us the shining city, he wasn’t puffing out his chest. He was telling us that the light we throw off lands on other people, whether we mean it to or not, and we had better mind what kind of light it is.

Read the article: The Shining City on the Hill.


Bonus3


OSASCOMP - Order of Adjectives

This is quite a bit afield of what I usually talk about. It's a language issue that I stumbled upon years ago and found quite fascinating.

Have you ever wondered why a string of adjectives can feel prefectly fine but if the order is changed it feels wrong?

The phenomenon points to how subtle and diffcult language issues can be.

Why does "a red old family wooden Victorian large beautiful house" sound awkward, but "a beautiful large old red Victorian wooden family house" sounds fine?

It's because in English there is a "strict, natural sequence called the Order of Adjectives." Here's the order:

Article (the/a)
Quantity
Opinion
Size
Age
Shape
Color
Origin
Material
Purpose
Noun

It never ceases to amaze me how complicated language can be.

For more: Order of Adjectives in English (OSASCOMP) | Rules, Chart & Examples.

Index to Weekly Essays

Questions and comments are welcome: Torah@JF2.com. See CQ&A.

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7/5/26: Stop Trying To Be Good
6/28/26: Changes How You Know God
6/21/26: Stop Fighting Alone
6/14/26: Why You Feel Alone
6/7/26: You Don't Really Know God
5/31/26: When Prayer Feels Stale
5/24/26: How To Deal With Temptation
5/17/26: This is Destroying Your Life
5/10/26: When You Can't Fix Things
5/3/26: Prayer
4/26/26: Why is Surrender Hard
4/19/26: Are You Praying Wrong?
4/12/26: The Holy Spirit Explained
4/5/26: This Changes Everything
3/29/26: The Jesus We Skip
3/22/26: How To Argue
3/15/26: The Dangerous Disconnect
3/8/26: How To Get Over Yourself
3/1/26: How To Trust God
2/22/26: Make A Lasting Impact
2/15/26: You Can't Follow Both
2/8/26: Why You're Not Happy
2/1/26: How to Make Better Decisions
1/25/26: Surface Faith vs Real Faith
1/18/26: Let Go and Forgive
1/11/26: Breaking The Cycle
1/4/26: The Reason You're Stuck
12/28/25: Home for the Holidays
12/21/25: Why You're Anxious
12/14/25: The Father You Need
12/7/25: Let God be the Hero
11/30/25: Don't Carry It Anymore
11/23/25: The Power of 'Yet'
11/16/25: When God Is Silent
11/9/25: When God Makes No Sense
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8/24/25: The Church I See
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6/8/25: You Asked: Ask, Seek, Knock
6/1/25: You Asked: Faith vs Works
5/25/25: You Asked For It: Intro
5/18/25: Relationships Are Everything
5/11/25: Biblical Finance
5/4/25: What Do You Prioritize?
4/27/25: Stop Negative Thoughts
4/20/25: Find New Life
4/13/25: SOZO: Now What?
4/6/25: SOZO: Trust the Process
3/30/25: Why Doesn't God Always Heal
3/23/25: SOZO: Healing is a Choice
3/16/25: SOZO: True Freedom
3/9/25: SOZO: Free from Sin
3/2/25: SOZO: Freedom
2/23/25: SOZO: Saved
2/16/25: SOZO: Finding Wholeness
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2/2/25: Mouth: Gossip
1/26/25: Mouth: Lying
1/19/25: Mouth: Cynicism/Faith
1/12/25: Mouth: Criticizing
1/5/25: Mouth: Complaining
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12/22/24: Love With Action
12/15/24: Find True Joy
12/8/24: Unwrap the Gift of Peace
12/1/24: Hope in the Darkness
11/24/24: Trust in the Waiting
11/17/24: Gal.: Carry Others' Burdens
11/10/24: Gal.: Battle Within Us
11/3/24: Gal.: Live in Freedom
10/27/24: Gal.: Embracing Our Identity
10/20/24: Gal.: Purpose of the Law
10/13/24: Galatians: Live by Faith
10/6/24: Galatians: Justified by Faith
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9/22/24: Holy Spirit: Filled/Permeates
9/15/24: Holy Spirit: Power
9/8/24: Holy Spirit: Intro
9/1/24: Process of Becoming
8/25/24: Build a Gathering
8/18/24: Get Planted
8/11/24: Meta: Who Do You Say I Am?
8/4/24: Meta: Living Water
7/28/24: Meta: Be Pruned and Abide
7/21/24: Meta: GPS ("the Way")
7/14/24: Meta: Knowledge to Action?
7/7/24: Meta: Resurrection & the Life
6/30/24: Metaphors: Good Shepherd
6/23/24: Metaphors: I am the Door
6/16/24: Metaphors: Light of the World
6/9/24: Metaphors: Bread of Life
6/2/24: Metaphors: Introduction
5/26/24: Living Together: Conflict
5/19/24: Living Together: Generations
5/12/24: Living Together: Family
5/5/24: Living Together: Marriage
4/28/24: That Hurt: You (Guilt)
4/21/24: That Hurt: God's People
4/14/24: That Hurt: Acts of God
4/7/24: That Hurt: Forgiveness
3/31/24: He Is Risen Indeed!
3/24/24: BMN: Relationships
3/17/24: BMN: Work
3/10/24: BMN: Emotions
3/3/24: BMN: Mental Health
2/25/24: BMN: Financial Freedom
2/18/24: Be Made New: Stress
2/11/24: Be Made New: Spiritually
2/4/24: Be Made New: Truth
1/28/24: Who are You Following?
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1/7/24: Finding God's Path
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12/24/23: Christmas Eve
12/17/23: Building Families
12/10/23: Make Room
12/3/23: Ephesians #13
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11/19/23: Ephesians #11
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11/5/23: Ephesians #9
10/29/23: Ephesians #8
10/22/23: Ephesians #7
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6/25/23: This Too Shall Pass
6/18/23: Forgive and Forget
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6/4/23: Misquoted
5/28/23: More Meals, Less Messages
5/21/23: Grace and Truth
5/14/23: Community/Communion
5/7/23: Circles > Rows
4/30/23: Old School: 4
4/23/23: Old School: 3
4/16/23: Old School: 2
4/9/23: Old School: 1
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3/26/23: Life You've Wanted: 8
3/19/23: Life You've Wanted: 7
3/12/23: Life You've Wanted: 6
3/5/23: Life You've Wanted: 5
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2/19/23: Life You've Wanted: 3
2/12/23: Life You've Wanted: 2
2/5/23: Life You've Wanted: 1
1/29/23: Life You've Wanted: Intro
1/22/23: Detox #3
1/15/23: Detox #2
1/8/23: Detox #1
1/1/23: New Year's Day
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12/11/22: The Gift: 2
12/4/22: The Gift: 1
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10/16/22: Book of James: 2
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9/25/22: Re-Assembly Required: 3
9/18/22: Re-Assembly Required: 2
9/11/22: Re-Assembly Required: 1
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6/5/22: Extraordinary: 2
5/29/22: Extraordinary: 1
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4/24/22: Heart & Soul: 2 (Worship)
4/17/22: Heart & Soul: 1
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4/3/22: Limitless: 9 Wholeness
3/27/22: Limitless: 8 Healed
3/20/22: Limitless: 7 Healed
3/13/22: Limitless: 6 Healed
3/6/22: Limitless: 5 Freed
2/27/22: Limitless: 4 Freed
2/20/22: Limitless: 3 Freed
2/13/22: Limitless: 2 Saved
2/6/22: Limitless: 1 Sozo
1/30/22: Chasing Carrots: 4
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1/16/22: Chasing Carrots: 2
1/9/22: Chasing Carrots: 1
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12/19/21: Christmas Stories: 3
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11/7/21: Holy Spirit: Power
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10/24/21: Answers to Prayer
10/17/21: For Thine Is the Kingdom
10/10/21: Deliver Us from Evil
10/3/21: Forgive Us Our Sins
9/26/21: Daily Bread
9/19/21: Your Will Be Done
9/12/21: Our Father
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9/5/21: OMG: No Recording
8/29/21: Parenting
8/22/21: Fighting Fair
8/15/21: Money Management
8/8/21: Time Management